Matchmaker Janis Spindel replies – They won’t!
Men are intimidated by pretty women. What I’m hearing is that you are confident, hoping that you are attractive so that you do get noticed.
So having said that and you get noticed and men are smiling at you but they are not taking it to the next step, that’s typical- typical behavior of why you need to do what’s in my book which is called the “Hello Challenge.”
You take the initiative and say hello. Smile and just say hello.
If you are meeting somebody on an airplane then its easy. Number 1, I’m assuming you are in flying first class, then ok you are in economy.
But what you should do is to start talking about where you are going. SO If you’re heading back to California you can very simply say, you must add humor to it, you can very simply say so do you live in California or are you from Chicago, where is which you are flying back from.
Just start conversation, trust me, once you the start conversation the man will take over if he happens to be interested. Let him take the next step.
First thing you need to do though is check on his hand and see if there is a wedding band and if there is then you need to start another conversation, if he’s smiling at you…
That’s annoying! You don’t want to get involved and go down that road! But you could always say, “so how come you’re wife doesn’t travel with you when you travel on business?” and then see if he gets into a conversation.
First of all men, are so clueless that he wont even realize that he has a wedding band on. He will probably look at you and say “Wow how did you know I was married? Do I have it written all over my face?”
And then you can start a conversation because he might have a brother or a co-worker or a suddenly recently divorced friend and so forth and so on. So you need to keep a lot of things in mind.
You have to network which is extremely important. You have to ask everybody you come into contact with if they have someone for you, and if you think this is the guy for you.
He smiles at you, makes eye contact and walks away; I deal with that everyday of the week! If I approach a hundred men and I take a survey and ask them how many of them would go up to a woman and approach her, I would say 99 out of 100 would say nope!
Not me! Men are intimidated by pretty women. Yes they do love confident women, if you are then read my blogs and watch some of my videos and you’ll see how easy it is to just go up to a man and start conversation.
If you end you end up in a relationship he will think he met you first. Trust me I’ve been living it for years!
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With over 16 years of experience as a professional matchmaker working exclusively for the nation’s most successful men, Janis Spindel has a unique insider’s perspective on contemporary dating. Her clients tell her exactly what they want in a relationship, in the process revealing the secrets to the male brain. Article Source:http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/serious-matchmaking-inc-qa-getting-men-to-notice-you-1054948.html