Shyness is a natural emotion which can be difficult to overcome since it is based on insecurity. Find out more about overcoming shyness withtips from a professional psychologist in this free video about self-improvement tips. Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has a Ph.D and did graduate work in behavior psychology. Vehorn wrote “Dynamic Dating” and “Boomer Girls, a Woman’s Guide to Men & Dating.” Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz…
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I bet that actor that he is refering to is Robin Williams. He was a chubby child who was really quiet, shy and kind of an outcast. He just got out of it by using his humour to make friends and became really popular…
at 13 , you don’t have girlfriends. you ask them out and the relationship would probably just be in school
how do you know they have had SEX?
For some it can be true but not for me. I´m always myself and do the things that I like to do without caring about what other people think of it. I work out and I like to watch MMA and I have trained boxing and karate but I did that because I liked it not to overcompensate and being macho. I don´t know why I´m too shy to approach girls. I am good looking. I know a lot of people and most people like me.
Nope not for me. I´m my self when I´m not shy. That is around the people that I know. I´m not my self when I´m shy because then I can´t be my self and show my personality.
I like watching this guy’s videos and reading the comments they’re so funny!
Yeah, 13 year old relationships last what? a week?
OMG. i totally agree… you can`t be yourself when your shy!
This video is actually kinda offensive to shy people. Shyness is NOT about being selfish, I don’t think I’ve ever ‘overcompensated’ in conversations. If anyone’s overcompensating it’s him talking about a subject on which he has no real knowledge!! !
i agree man, i hate when a woman flarts on me all night… kinda stinky and wet
I know what it’s like to overcome shyness, and whatever this man is saying is complete B.S. It’s hard to be yourself when you’re constantly worrying about what others are thinking of you, you want to kind of be unoticed or left alone. I know when I was shy I hated being asked things like “Why are you shy?” or “Why do you have to be so quiet?” Being confident is hard, but not impossible. Start walking with your head up, one thing that keeps be confident is thinking I’m better than everyone else.
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I know it may sound bad but it really boosts your self confidence. Start to speak your opinions, even if you think someone is going to point & laugh in your face, express yourself because you are you, and that person is just another nobody. If your self conscious, start thinking about all the good things about you, and all the bad stuff about everyone else, it helps! I’m not going to give you advice like be friendly to all. Be you, because your better than them.
I thought that I am the only person who feels that way. glad we are same page. Thanks for sharing your view…
How are you supposed to be your self when you are shy? That’s some bad advice!
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how in wine wiskey hell can u or anybody think they better than someone else? do you not shit and it stank like ery body else’s shit? or gotta eat or bathe like erybody else?
aint nobody better than nobody. erybody the same. shit stank gotta die, gotta bathe, gotta eat . the rich and famous aint even better so how are u better? money dont even make u better. money sure as hell aint kept micheal jackson here did it?
so that goes to show no one is better than any one
well i guess thinking u better than others is a way to boost low self esteem, and make u look stupid too cause how in flat hell is anybody better than anybodyelse? god gave all us a stank to all our asses, and we all gots to put food in our guts and wipe stank doo doo from our asses.
Smart. Check out how to improve self image on my channel.
just man up and do the dew!!
You missed the whole point of his statement. He doesn’t actually think he’s better than everyone else or ahead of everyone else. Positive reinforcement is what the point was, it builds self-confidence, and allows for the individual to keep his/her head up and be much more self sufficient and authoritative in social situations.
I am not really shy but I dont know what shall I say to most of the people. I mean I know what to say to my friends and stuffs, but most of them are extremly social. I dont know what shall I do about it. It is so unconftable…. I might ruined my guitar duett with this as well, because we just played in a festival for 5 days and when I was not drinking I just did not know what to say to him (otherwise we were best friends) . Is there anything I can do about it????
how to talk to the hottie in the street ????
wow i really like this dude… he’s so layd back.
how do you change your whole personality though? i want to have close relationships and be the one who “talks alot”, but instead i’m the quiet, awkward one who few people are interested in. i need help, its ruining my life.
honestly man the only person who can help you is yourself, somehow look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to man the fuck up an stop being shy. You just gotta bite the bullet! if a chick doesn’t dig you who gives a fuck don’t take it personally its her loss!! just be yourself and as casual as you are with you mates maybe a bit less sexist but have a good time, gals like guys who can be cool and relaxed around them.